calcatesOct 15, 20213 min readWhat We Say When We (Struggle to) Say TheyThe thing about “they” as a pronoun is that it is far from neutral, particularly when heard and used, or -- not heard or used -- by...
calcatesSep 10, 20214 min readBad AdviceI have given a lot of bad advice. I never meant to do it. It just happened. I was trying to help. I was trying to stop the pain. Aren’t...
